I always like to look up the definition of each week’s word to help me center on what I want to say.  Merriam-Webster had numerous definitions and my favorite is “to delight in, enjoy.”  That is how I want to live my life. I fail more times than I succeed but it’s the goal. 

Ever since my babies were born, I tried really hard to savor the seasons I was in at the time. It was hard when they were little because the days were long but it didn’t take long to realize that the years were short. 

Now that they are young adults (my baby graduates from high school in two months) I want to savor this season as well. I want to remember their baby and toddler years, but I don’t want to dwell there. I want to be present in their lives now as they make their way in this big world. 

I tell my young mommy friends not to wish for the next season. It will come soon enough. Sooner than they can imagine. Savor everyday that you have in this season. Seasons will change, a lot of times without our even noticing it. 

In the words of Jim Elliott, “wherever you are, be all there.”  Savor it with all of your heart. 

13 Comments on [savor]

  1. I love the quote! That’s one to remember. I’m learning to savor, too. All of my babies are grown, but I still delight in them. Your FMF neighbor.

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  2. <3 Thank you for that simple and sweet reminder to savor the seasons of motherhood! We have two sons…high school and middle school. A new season of new schools and new friendships. Cheers to Friday! JK Cook, FMF

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  3. I wish I could have known this when my girls were little :). But I’ve worked hard to forge a strong relationship with my girls as they entered their teen years–now as young adults, they are my best friends.

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    • Anita, I am doing the same with my kids…forging strong relationships as they live their lives on their own.

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  4. “the days were long but it didn’t take long to realize that the years were short.” Truer words were never spoken. Great post! FMF#19

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  7. I don’t know why I just now found this, but it’s really awesome! That is a great word. And I had no idea you have a tattoo- I LOVE it!
    You should keep writing, you have a lot of wisdom to share.

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    • Thanks Amanda. I don’t promote as well as I should but I enjoy writing out my thoughts. I haven’t been consistent either as I didn’t realize it had been so long since I last posted.

      I actually have 3 tattoos. I’m getting another one for my birthday in a couple of weeks. George says I am in a mid-life crisis. Ha!

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